Keep the closed box visible and tidy the order item card

- After closing, the box button stays disabled as "Box N closed" for
  5 minutes, timed from a new picked_up_at so it survives a reload
- Picked-up items keep showing their pickup box number
- Hide the steps toggle on ready and picked-up items
- Move "Buy again" and "Get help" into a dots menu in the item header

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

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